You Can Avoid Killing Dogs By Reading Every Day

Yesterday, I nearly hit a dog when I was driving through my neighborhood.

I was driving 25 - the speed limit - but these two kids were standing on one side of the road and they stuck their hands out, like they were asking me to stop. I was confused. I thought the kids were asking me to stop so they could cross the road, but there were no cars behind me, and I'm driving thinking, Uh, sure. You can wait till I drive past and cross the road then. But I slowed down anyway. And when I looked in front of me, a big black labrador was streaking past my car. I mean, right in front of my car. I slammed on the brakes, and I think my bumper grazed his hips. I think his tail thumped off my car on his happy way past.

The thing was, the kids didn't look urgent when they stuck their hands out. If they had looked urgent, with painted-pained faces, I would have reacted immediately, even without knowing why they had both tossed their hands out there. But instead, they looked nonchalant, like, "Dude, we want you to stop, but we won't tell you why."

If I had not heeded their instruction and begun to slow down, I would have become a registered dog killer, and those kids would have lost a good friend.

Have you ever heard the term, "A book is like a good friend"?

This is where the metaphor gets murky, but stick with me...

By the time I reached the exit to the neighborhood and began to breathe normal again, I (of course) started thinking about writing. And what I thought about was this:

Every aspiring author hears, "Reading all the time is just as important as writing all the time." But no one ever gets urgent about it. No one grabs your collar and shakes you and says, "Don't you get it! If you don't read, you'll never write something great!" All anyone ever does is nonchalantly throw their hand out and say, "Hey, um...you should read a lot. Okay?"

There are a lot of plants we water in our lives that do not grow especially tall and green and shining for a long time. We water them and we water them and it seems pointless.

A kid throws his hand out in front of your car, like, "Uh...no big deal, but could you stop? Would you mind?"

A reader who wants to read your great works of the future says, "Um, will you read a lot, please? Would you mind?"

And if all we ever do is say, "No. I don't see the point. I don't see any immediate results," well...squash. You'll run over the dog. You'll cream the "good friend" that was trying to reach readers.

In our lives, there are plenty of things we do today (and tomorrow, and the next day, and the next, and the next, and ad infinitum) that do not yield immediate results. There are things we do each day, following the 'suggestions' laid out before us, and we don't understand why we are doing them for a long, long time. But look forward. See it? That dog is running across the road. Your published novel, your breakthrough, is running across the road. If you have heeded instructions - if you have been writing daily; if you have been reading daily; if you have been doing what you can each 'today' to build your 'tomorrow' - the dog will reach the readers intact. It will wag its tail, and they'll scratch its face, and they'll love it, and they'll never realize how close the dog was to: Splat! But you will know. And you will be happy, because the dog made it alive.

Do what you can today. Write. Read.
Do what you can tomorrow. Write. Read.
Do what you can the next day. And the next day. And the next.

Read as much as you write.

It might not make sense now. You might not see the reason. But if you heed this nonchalant advice, you'll thank yourself in the future.


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10 comments:

  1. I agree, reading and writing everyday are absolutely essential. I used to be the lazy writer who wrote often, but read when I "had the time". I now realize that you just can't keep the mind sharp without constantly challenging it. Also, as was the case yesterday, I realized, after finishing a really great book, that they're are so many wonderful writers out there doing it sooo much better than I. Stay on your toes writers!

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  2. Hmmm, I've always been told to read at least as much as I write. Someone told me that you should have read at least 1000 books before you can write anything decent. I read at least 1-2 hours everyday, and more on weekends, but I always feel like I have more books on my nightstand than I can ever finish. Not to mention the books on craft that I'd like to go back and re-read.

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  4. A truly inspiring post, my friend. "In our lives, there are plenty of things we do today (and tomorrow, and the next day, and the next, and the next, and ad infinitum) that do not yield immediate results." I love that quote; it's true. I used to tell my students the same line (worded differently, of course) but they usually raised their pupils to the ceiling and muttered, "Oh here he goes again..." In the time I've spent dating my current W.I.P., I can truthfully say how reading often has benefited. For as many bumps as I hit in the road, there are plenty of moments when I think, "Hey, looky here! I know what I need to do!!!" And there is no doubt in my mind it comes from reading (And talented, insightful colleagues like yourself.)

    Thank you for this; honestly. It has me pumped to write today. Now if I can just hold the motivation until after work...

    Oh, and the whole dog analogy - extremely clever! A+ from me!

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  5. LOVED IT! This was just the kick in the pants I needed! I loved the analogy too! . . .(in case you're wondering who I am, your girlfriend used to come over to my house with her sisters as little girls with their mom, a great friend of mine who I absolutely loved and adored, and still do! :)

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  6. Paige - "You just can't keep the mind sharp without constantly challenging it." So true!

    Melissa - Having more books on the nightstand than it seems you'll ever be able to finish is sort of a nice feeling, isn't it?

    Paul - It's amazing how small most people's perspectives are. If I remember correctly, you taught 7th grade(?). You can look at a 7th grader and understand why they have a hard time looking beyond their evening with the PS3 or the friend's house they plan to stay at this weekend. But so many people never grow out of that mentality! I imagine the seeds you planted during your time with those kids will grow within some of them. Every splash from the watering can helps.

    Kristin - The Shutterbug sent me a text saying she saw your comment on here, and how fun it was to see you on here. Well...how fun it is!

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  7. You remember correctly. I'm impressed.

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  8. The fun thing about me reading lots of books in lots of genres is that my TV watching hubby has begun picking up some of the stuff I've finished (he's basically read nothing but Golf Digest for years). He actually tore through The Hunger Games faster than I did! Maybe his brain can be saved after all!

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  9. Great post - although for me, reading is like breathing! I can't imagine not doing it but now I feel much more positive about it - in that your post has helped me see that far from hindering me from finishing my novel, it's going to help me get there. I'm writing AND reading every day now pretty much.

    PS I love your blog!

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  10. Had a similar conversation on AW last week. My post was something like this:
    One of my writer friends and I discussed how our writing is like a Venn Diagram.
    All the books you read, the material you absorb into your writing intersects in some way. So I'm part ghost story, part romance, part mystery...part Shakespeare, part Irving, part Rowling, part Moore, part Hemingway, part Fitzgerald, part Austen, part King, part...
    As readers who write (or writers who read) we are always incorporating styles, themes, and yes, age-old plots into our own work.

    All of my work is influenced by everyone I've read. If it wasn't, I don't believe I'd ever grow as a writer.

    There's always discussion about how derivative some works are, how much we dilute age-old plots. I believe the way to create something unique is by blending elements from across genres, across centuries, across cultures. Read widely.

    Everything I read impacts my writing. Venn Diagram. you have to read to write well.

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